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7 Grooming and Dress Tips for Men

Attention to detail is crucial when creating that competitive edge! Sometimes the small details that most of us do not think about, are in fact what others really pick up on. That potential new employer notices your less than perfect appearance, or the new client that you are trying to win over does not see your A-game that day. It is truly the little things that can derail that well thought out outfit or the grooming details that we do not think are important!

My son, Brett, this past weekend told me a story of when one of his colleagues shared their interview methods with him. The colleague, who had conducted many interviews in his career, said that after he was introduced to the applicant the first thing he would look at would be their fingernails. Were they dirty, were taken care of, did the applicant wash his/her hands before they walked in the door? Depending on the quality of the applicants fingernails the interview would continue based on the premise that if the applicant doesn’t take the time to wash his/her hands or take care of themselves, how can they pay attention to the details for the company. While this example may be a little extreme, I find it interesting that sometimes people pay attention to what’s least expected. It’s important to take pride in how you present yourself, your hair doesn’t have to be perfect everyday, but it’s always worth trying to look your best!

Here at The Bespoke Edge would like to offer the following 7 grooming and dress tips that will help polish your image and fine-tune your current wardrobe.

1) Clean and polished dress shoes
If your dress shoes can be polished, shine them up! If they can’t be polished, at least make sure you didn’t spill something right on the toe of your shoe.

2) Match belt color to shoe color
This is a subtle detail that goes a long way. It doesn’t have to match perfectly but a simple rule, brown belt goes with brown shoes, and black belt with black shoes.

3) Socks, socks, socks!
When in doubt, match your sock color to your blazer color. But have some fun here, throw in some brightly colored socks to contrast your suit, can’t go wrong with argyles or a fun polka-dot!

4) Well-groomed hairstyle
Shampoo, conditioner, product. Whatever your style is make sure it’s clean and looks like you’ve paid attention to it in the last 24 hours.

5) Cleaned and trimmed fingernails
Like my son’s story, clean your fingernails and wash your hands. Try to stay away from the bad habit of biting your fingernails. It’s one thing if you’re working out in the backyard and get your hands dirty, but that’s why there’s soap, clean ‘em up!

6) Minimal cologne
Cologne is meant to be an intimate fragrance, if you walk by me and I can smell it for 5 minutes after you’ve left the room, it’s too much! One spray will suffice, spray on your bare neck and chest or on a wrist, then dab your wrist on your neck. Do not rub on your skin, this will reduce the length of time cologne lasts. Focus on pulse points, like your neck and wrists.

7) Take a shower
Take a shower and wash your face. At of all the challenges in your day, this should not be very difficult. Clean yourself up daily and smell good.

Feel free to contact us at with other questions that you have about developing that professional, business wardrobe. A big part of looking and feeling your best are your clothes. Wearing the right clothes for the right occasion and of course well fit clothing. Fitted clothes that match your individual body shape and style go a long way. Shouldn’t you have clothing that is as individual as you are?

How to care for your ties in 3 ways

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An all silk, hand-sewn tie will last many years if proper care is given to it and some simple guidelines are followed. Read these simple instructions on how to care for your ties.

1) Untying your tie
 Always untie the knot in your neckwear each time you wear your tie.  Leaving the tie knotted may cause permanent wrinkles and will make it more difficult to vary your knot style.  When you untie your necktie, simply reverse the tying procedure and avoid pulling the small end through the knot.  Light wrinkles may be removed by using a steam iron, but do not allow the iron to touch the fabric.

2) Cleaning your tie
If your tie requires dry cleaning, be sure to choose a company that has experience and a good reputation in neckwear care.  If you stain your tie while wearing it, always blot the stain rather than rubbing it. Often a clean cloth and a small amount of seltzer water can go a long ways when you’re in a pinch. If your tie has to be slightly pressed, specify that it be hand pressed using just steam.

3) Storing your tie
To store a tie simply drape it over a hanger or around the collar of the outfit you plan to wear. Be careful never to fold or crease your ties. When traveling lightly roll up each tie and pack carefully. Once you arrive at your destination unroll your ties and hang over your outfit to allow any creases to work themselves out.

Don’t know how to tie a tie? Take a look at our How to Tie a Tie Guide »

How to tie a tie guide

Don’t know how to tie a necktie? Fear not, we are here to help. Use these simple instructions as a guide to tie your neckties. The necktie has become a strong focal point in today’s business wardrobes. Neck wear is often the first item of an outfit that others notice and that initial impression is always key!

So print this guide off, bookmark it, save it to your local drive, just be sure to have it handy and you’ll always know how to tie a tie.

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Dress for your success

In job hunting, first impressions are critical and you are marketing an important product – yourself! The first thing that a potential employer sees when greeting you is your attire, so make every effort to have the proper dress for the type of job your are seeking. Dressing properly will not get you that job all by itself, but it will give you a competitive edge and a positive first impression. Should you be judged by what you wear? Perhaps not, but the reality is that we are all judged. Employers often use short cuts to save time, like a quick scan of the first paragraph in the cover letter or a glance of your accomplishments in the resume. With the job interview, it’s how you are dressed that sets the tone of the interview.

How should you dress? Dressing conservatively is always the safest route, but do some research of your prospective employer to determine the current environment with regards to attire. You can call the Human Resources department and simply ask or visit the company’s office to retrieve an application, etc. and observe the attire current employees are wearing.

We believe that you need to dress for your success. “Dress for Success” is the simple statement that the right clothing can make a difference in the way you feel about yourself and the way others perceive you. Your clothing will make a personal statement about you, so invest wisely and spend the time to become educated in what it takes to create the image you want to portray.

We offer the following additional tips:

  • You truly never get a second chance to make a good first impression.
  • Always project a strong self-image and start with a positive appearance.
  • Study your appearance as a prospective employer may.
  • It’s always better to be a little over dressed than under dressed.
  • Utilize the expertise of a quality, personal clothier.